WHAT EVERY PARENT SHOULD KNOW

ABOUT SOCCER

     Nothing thrills a young soccer player more than when they hear words of encouragement and cheers from the sidelines. It is important for young players to receive positive feedback from their parents and other spectators, otherwise, soccer is just "we won" or "we lost".  Parents have a responsibility, not only to their own children, but also to the entire team.  Any angry mob of screaming adults ruins the whole game for everyone.

     The South Florin Soccer Club plays at a youth recreational level.  We encourage fitness, cooperation, skill and enjoyment, not a  "in at all costs" attitude.  If you feel your child is ready to play at a competitive level, competitive level, consider they try out for a competitive club.

     Many parents forget that soccer is just a game.  It is one thing to get emotionally involved with your child's team; cheering until you lose your voice.  However, when parents get so upset that they harass the referee, the players or the coach from the opposing team, the best thing to do is leave the field.  Parents must remember to set a positive example for their child when on the soccer field, whether it be at a home game or an away game. 

     When arriving a the playing field, make sure that everything and everybody is at least 3 feet away from the touchline.  This includes parent, lawn chairs, soccer balls, sport bottles, pets, siblings, friends and relatives.  ONLY the coaches can be close to the field - and they must stay within 10 yards of the halfway line (or even with the center circle).  Parents acting as a "coach", i.e. instructing players as opposed to rooting and cheering, must also stay within 10 yards of t he halfway line, and always 3 feet from the touchline.  NO spectator are allowed behind either goal line. 

     The referee is the final authority on the field.  Even if you feel the referee makes a bad call, the decision stands.  Don't hold up the game by trying to argue the call, even if it's felt the referee is wrong.  Talk to the coaching staff about any calls or decisions the referee makes.  The coaches can speak with the referee either at half time or at the end of the game. The coaches can protest the game on grounds that the referee did not apply the rules correctly (but not on a judgment call). Arguing directly with the referee can only hurt the team and everyone involved in the game.  Act rationally, even in the face of chaos.  REMEMBER your behavior can result in the coach being issued a Red Card from the referee and the team will forfeit the game. 

     Finally, remember to give positive encouragement, especially if the team is losing.  Praise not only your child, but every child on the team.  They are all winners.

Parent's Code of Conduct and Responsibilities

Display good sportsman-like behavior.

Foster a spirit of teamwork and cooperation among the players.

Do not interfere with the game at any time.

Respect the referees.

Support the coaching staff and team parent.

Control  your actions and those of your family and friends.

Help the team parent provide refreshments and volunteer whenever possible with team and Club activities.

Be an active, supportive participant in Club fundraisers.

Drop off and pick up your child, on time, to practice and games as the coach requires.

Return uniforms to the coach at the end of the season.

Leave the playing field clean after practices and games, both home and away.

Under NO circumstances are alcoholic beverages or tobacco products allowed anywhere near a soccer field or on school grounds.

Be a positive role model by setting a good example.